Being a Parent Requires How to command and master your emotions...

by Pena Gaharu

Being a parent is already hard enough without having to involve your emotions. Once your emotions kick in, you are in for a ride. As a parent, you will feel every emotion that is humanly possible because your children will take you there over the years and as these children grow, you will continue down the emotional path of raising children. It never ends!

At what time your children cry, you will cry because they are hurting physically and/or mentally. The only thing you can do however is to help them cope. Your children may cry because their puppy died, or their hamster ran away. These things may be little to you, but they mean the world to your children.

At what time your children are mad, you will be mad because someone has caused them to become angry. The only thing you can do is find out why they are mad and talk about why it made the child mad. Your children may be mad because they can’t go to the park or because he or she lost their basketball game. Children often get mad for reasons, thus it is important to find out why.

At what time your child is in pain, you will feel pain because you are there mother or father and you don’t want them to feel hurt. Your children may have fallen and scraped their knee or fell off his or her bike.

At what time your children are sad, you are going to feel sad with them, because, seeing the child hurt makes you hurt inside as well. As parents, importance is placed on sharing emotions. Your children may be sad because of something that another student said to them at school.

At what time your child is happy, you will be happy, even if you don’t agree with what they are happy about, it still will make you smile. If they are happy about an achievement then you should feel happy with them and give them some kind of reward. This promotes good working emotions.

At what time your child does something wrong, then you should correct them because it is up to you to raise your children the way that you would want them to be raised. It is important to give positive discipline, rather than hurt, harm, or beat the child. A spanking is good, only at what time you have control of your own emotions. Beating a person will only lead to super major problems:

Being a parent is tough; however, there are ways that you can work harder to be a better parent. As a parent, you are entitled to feel emotions and express your feelings; you just want to make sure that you know the difference between the two.

If you work hard to learn how to command and master your emotions I am sure that you will be a better person overall. You don’t have to be the sweetest mom, but you need to know that there is a place and time for everything.

I hope that you have found my information to be helpful and I hope that you will be able to learn from what I have said. I am sure there are going to be times that you wish you could just run away but you can’t. If you know how to command and master your emotions then you should be able to be a wonderful parent and a wonderful wife and/or husband. Emotions are very tricky and sometimes you may not understand why you feel a certain way until something happens to confirm that you feel that way.